REAL & IDEAL WORLDs

Great scientist like Einstein believe in the existence of parallel worlds but for a budding graduate student like me there are only two worlds which are like the two sides of a coin, "The realistic world" and "The idealistic world". The differences according to me can be interpreted in my way like the following. For example, Edison another scientist who invented the electric bulb met his realistic world 100 times before he met his idealistic world for one time. The amount of joy one would get if they meet their idealistic world is enormous and infinite.

When any graduate student starts any experiment he expects to meet his idealistic world and whole heartedly wishes for it. But the catch is the realistic world has huge power over the idealistic one and hits that grad student very hard repeatedly so that his probability of experiencing the idealistic world decreases exponentially but does not reach zero . The time involved in making that small amount of probability work out to meet his idealistic world is 4-5 yrs.

The idealistic and realistic concepts are true in every walk of life but not always. For example think of marriage. If you are married to your girl friend then you have met your idealistic world. Of course in many cases the above idealistic world can turn into a realistic one after some period of time. But in the other case if you are not married to your girl friend then you have already met your realistic world and you have almost zero probability to get to your idealistic world.

An admit in a top university which you desire is your ideal world and admit in a less ranked university is your real world. The happiness which we get in the realistic world is materialistic and optimistic but in the idealistic world it is eternal bliss. So, people get ready to collide with the real world many many times before your collision with idealistic world. But don't give up till you are in your ideal world which means pompous joy.

Good lucky to you all and wish you a very happy new year !

Sensible Literacy

The words Literacy, Education are "the" important building blocks of a responsible community. I have many examples where everything bottle downs to this single word.

Imagine a farmer who is a illiterate. The farmer works very hard to get his family going in the pathway of life. One day this farmer some how got inspired by seeing the landlord's son and started sending his son to the nearby village school to avoid the hard-man ship he is facing and wants to educate his son. This Inspiration of the farmer can be be the key turning point for the farmer and his family. Because the educated son can at least in some way or the other help the farmer in making correct decisions for the future of the farmer's family. You may wonder how?
This educated son for example can inspire his father to go and talk to the near by agricultural department for the profitable crops and simple ways to increase yields which means that he can introduce his father to the modern techniques to agriculture. He can ask his father to take advantage of the banks which lend loans to farmers at a lower interest rates. He can also inspire the family to select the right village leader or any other true political leader for the betterment of his village and indirectly his family. There are many other instances which i can say can lead to the betterment of the farmer's family because of his educated son. The story equally applies to the farmer's daughter.

Now deviating for the actual topic, there is an important catch to the above story written very ideally. I believe a fair amount of farmer's sons and daughters are educated. This significant amount of the farmers sons and daughters least care about the family's prospects after they are educated and are on their own. I know that they cannot be asked to study or get educated only to help their father's/ families work. They have every right to develop their own ideas and ideals for life. The only other thing which they cannot do is just ignoring his/her family's work ship. They should in some way or the other contribute and help develop their own family business while doing or developing their own prospects. On the other hand the farmer who was earlier doing the job in agriculture cannot stop doing his own business and start depending solely on his son/daughter. This balance responsibilities in conjunction with education and literacy in an sensible way can do magic in an community or in fact in any economically growing country or democracy

The above story and ideas applies to any business. Many great business in the world in the started in a family or small community and started growing while helping build the community around it. The path which i believe those people must have taken to develop good business is the path of literacy and education like the above story. Finally to say a literate knows the difference between good/bad, right/wrong, necessary/Unnecessary. The day from which he stops thinking like this he inadvertently becomes illiterate even if he has peak education qualification. Education must be incorporated in an sensible and responsible way.

Mr.perfectionist ?

It all starts when i start watching any movie. Now-a-days when i do start watching a movie which was well hyped by many sources, i expect some things out of it. And in most of the time i end up disappointed. Why? the answer is I don't know why ? May be my threshold for perfectness has increased to a maximum level. I always think why the director or script writer or any other person had done such a silly thing in a particular scene. Why didn't he think in another way which would amaze the audience? This doesn't mean that i can start writing stories or directing films, but i figured out the actual route cause of this problem is my thinking of "Perfection" at every point.

I tried to learn violin the instrument that loved the most because in my view its one of the few instruments which can help you express joy and sadness equally. But i am not able to do it for many reasons. Here too i tried to be an perfectionist who wants to do things in his life which he thinks of doing. There are many instances where i tried to an Mr.P but i was not able to.

So i strongly decided that i must think of the "P" word if and only if there is a cent percent probability for attaining it. The same applies to that director or script writer or life. Finally the point of this silly post is I cannot be Mr.P and I'll be Mr.P only when i desire or if there is no chance event attached to it.

Hasta la vista

Ya i am leaving gurgaon today. The time has come now to permanently leave this place.Actually i had many bitter experiences than the very few memorable ones in Gurgaon.Memorable s can never be forgotten and they are.

1. A daily adventurous auto ride to Office in the morning
(Guys believe it or not autos in gurgaon can carry 16 people at one go.....)

2. Loss of pay for arriving late to the office by one minute or a few seconds...
happened many times in my case. I am the most indisciplined promedian i think.

3. 95% of the days without breakfast.

3. Diet lunch at the company.

4. The lousy afternoons in the company especially after lunch.

5. Chit chatting with department colleagues especially my work bench side (Regulatory Affairs
Department rocks !!!!!).

6. Morning and evening coffee sessions in the company.

7. The two annual day celebrations at PROMED.

8. Enjoying the internet experience of air tel broadband in the room ( although towards
the end it was bitter)

9. Late nite chit chatting sessions with my co- roommates....

10. Movies @ PVR (very expensive but couldn't resist though)

11. The day when i heard the admission news from University of Minnesota (A perfect gift
before my birthday) .

12. Jandewalah metro station.

13. Entire bunch of beautiful girls from TCS and polaris waiting for their bus in the evening after
the office time gets over.

14 Long table tennis match sessions after 5.30 with TT gang. I really started liking this game
very much after playing this game almost daily.

15. Restful weekends in Gurgaon especially after the company declared all Saturdays as holidays
from Jan 2009.

16. The wonderful shopping MALLS of gurgaon and the beautiful girls in them on weekends.

17. The psychotic conversations with my rented house owner. He is the very stingy person i
have ever met.

18. Banking and monetary help at any instance provided by my senior and best friend sicha.

19. The dusty roads during horrible summer, Beautiful winters and really crappy rainy seasons
in gurgaon.

20. The excellent practice school station at Glaxosmithkline, Gurgaon.....really enjoyed the lunch
and 20K stipend there...

21. 7th of every month because its our company's salary day..

22. My computer domain name: RA-7 (7 my lucky number).

23. Vodofone Delhi Half marathon (21 Kms).....Completed it in 3.40 minutes....one of the
greatest achievement of my Will power....


This list goes on and on......

Once again Hasta la vista................


Cheers
DEW

EXPRESSION

This beautiful word can be as sweet as honey or as lethal as poison or pain if a dimension called time is added to it. What i mean to say is expression of anything has to be done in the right point of time. If it is done in the right time it can be fruitful and can give joyous feelings to you or if not it can change everything into poison or pain leaving oneself wounded for ever. The examples of this kind of situation is left for your imagination like scientific evolution of species (Genetic Expression), Amazing feeling of LOVE etc......